10:30 PM
Wednesday, September 30, 2009:
THE FREEDOM OF SPEECH-
[excuse my broken]
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Lately , I've been very upset and pissed . Cos there is alot of problems happening in the house, and even outside the house. Bt after that day had happened I finally realised and get to see that some friends is not as good as how you see and behaves with && I also learned that not everything that we do must be trueful.
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WHY I SAID THAT?
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Examples. I've a story about 2 friend that I know. They knew eachother for year++, from a stranger from the first day they knew eachother to a friend they always called each other sweetly. They enjoyed getting closed to eachother, they talks about the most secret things they can talk abt almost everyday; they shared their problems and try to be there for eachother when they can..
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BUT OF CAUSE, NOTHING IS PERFECT, they always dislikes eachother because of some things like: (A)girl- likes to calculate the bad things (B)girl do , when B girl do lesser things she will start to use calculator and calculate. While B girl is a girl that are less calculative yet doesn't take initiative to think about what her friend need. THIS 2 weakness are called "different character". <-- short and simple. So what makes a big fuss about becoming enemies, and said all sort of ugly but yet truthful words from your heart to eachother after a big chaos? IS ALL THOSE HAPPY MOMENTS they spent killed by the BAD characters they both had ?
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HAD ALL those mistakes eachother had make not becoming a sorry they should said. Is GIRLS so not forgiving and hold grudges? I dont knw what bad stories are gonna happen next times.
BUT WHAT I WANT TO COMMENTS ABOUT THEM ARE....
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1) Real Friends shouldnt be calculative with eachother( cause that makes the right fact that you are not the right friend already. fullstop to you.)
2) Real friend wouldn' t be enemies, they will try to get ways to befriend again, cause both had mistakes that both should reward forgives.
3) Real friend should had said the bad points about her friend straight to her face, cause she wants her to change and get their relationship becoming the better.
4)Real friend would trust her friend that she wouldnt want to do something to hurt her and harm her or her loves ones .
5)When a real friend truefully wants to help her friend, she wouldnt had catch her friend's bad points of not helping her back, cause that is not called help. Cause real friend wouldnt expect or ask for returns when she trully wants to help her friend.
6)True friends wouldn't bring up lies or stories about her friend just to win a quarrel.
7) MOST IMPORTANTLLY is realfriend wouldn't blurt out secrets to embarass her friend.
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8) Thoughtful friend would think more about her friend's needs first.
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Moral of the story is.
B should be more attentive to A's needs . B shouldnt had depend so much on her friend. B should know that friend 's not as reliable NOW. A should learn how to trust people in order to step up her true fact of life that trust is very important. Not only towards friends even family or husbands or her child. A & B should let go and be neutral and also be sensible to their surrounding. Many people had conflicts because of their miss-communications and be more understandings to people. They had not been miss-communicated verbally or physically in the past. But to me, deep down in their cells they doesn't understand each other at all.. To them their good points seems to be forgetable. And their bad points seems to be more important.
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Anw I dont really wished to care, cause this 2 friend of mine had always been 2 alone in their lalaland, and many things they do and said wasnt up to my acknowledges. But to pick up all the points, I think A need to improves more and don't only depends on herself, she tot that she dont need a friend. Cause deep down in everyones heart they know that who-ever will need a friend to listen to their complaints be it abt husbands, child or families. . & B should learn to be independent by not telling so much about people or herself so easily and be careful of who she is talking with and hanging around with..
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Im not picking who is right or wrong, im picking about what REAL FRIEND should be. Bt I KNOW I'VE REAL FRIENDS AROUND CAUSE THEY ARE NOT LIKE THAT. :)
3:07 PM
Friday, September 25, 2009:
HAPPY ONE. YEAR. OLD BABYENEN!
Niece is one years old already. Today is her 1 y.o birthday !
Tonight ima going to her chalet and ton there!
:D
Yesterday's BABAs outing to Kallang's chi-na steamboat! Cost/ 13.50 +++
6 person of our food costed $94++ :D
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6 person of our food costed $94++ :D
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w/ MA-LA(medium) AND CHICKEN SUP!
Nails of me and WT!
Nails of BABAs!
Photos -will - not- be -up !
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Brought 60k of indon-rupiah mesos there, and it said was expire.
You know $1sgd = 6830 rupiah .
So 50k rupiah = $7sgd ONLY!
So even my 60k can be use, only can like buy food ?!
Anw, YT lended me some rupiah, and the shops there was awsome.
LV-GUESS-CHANEL-BURBERRY-etcetc FAKElooksREAL O.O
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*Drools- Go GoldenPrawn 933 for seafood ok!*
lol.
RANDOM.
10:48 PM
Tuesday, September 22, 2009:
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Though we still loved eachother, though im the one that are standing stronger here, my appearance and stuffs may looks like; but im sure myself that nobody know that deep down in my heart Im sad. Deep down I may be lying to myself that I can let you go. But I cant hold you back anymore, we're from different world. You are you , bt me are no longer me ! My smiles and laughters dissappeared. You are always the one I depended on , though you're always the girl in our r/s. Boy, I miss you alot too! I miss your hugs. I miss your touch. :(
For your own good, I must let go...... Unless you change, I will wait and face it with you again !
But its ok. Im so gonna let GO.
Im awaiting for you to let me go . Grow up !
11:04 PM
Friday, September 18, 2009:
Im having alot alot of stress. Broke up with Ben not long, his cant let go-ness really drives me crazy. Love too much is hard, love too less is hard. OMFG -- I dk what ! I really dk how --
But Ben I will wait and see you chnage, believe me or not. I dont care I dont want to know !
12:31 AM
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This few days is chaos under a chaos . First is me and baby, now is house that 2 ladies, and bros and sister's relationship plus the dissapointed we had all gave to my parents. Seriouslly I pity this house. I pity how the way they settle things how the way they didn't learn from their mistakes. WHAT IS THIS .... What is friend? Friend inculde trust, friend inculde "Ï not happy you I say cos I want you to change" after today I saw many fake star star*. Past few days Im feeling happy, cos finally the 3 young ladies can mix and match well. We talk, we go out tgt, blablabla -- ok whatever everything is actually fake man ~!
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